9 Sexual Fantasies After Menopause That Are Surprisingly Healthy

Find out how trying new things in bed keeps your intimate moments hot and satisfying after menopause.

1. Role Play

Trying out different roles in the bedroom can bring back that spark. Give a shot to playing as someone who fascinates you.

Check out non-traditional ways to feel good, like blindfolds or massage oils to add some mystery and pleasure.

Light bondage or spanking can introduce an edge of surprise and control, making it super thrilling.

Imagine sharing intimate moments in ways that are comfy and agreed upon by both of you.

Fantasizing about age differences can bring new angles to your love life, from younger days to maturity.

Light bondage is a fun way to explore power play and trust with your partner.

Throw in some naughty words during intimate times for an extra kick of arousal and emotional closeness.

Talking about and acting out each other’s fantasies shows you're game for trying new things together.

Bringing in vibrators or toys can help find new sensations and keep your love life spicy.

Reader Picks

Consider exploring books on healthy sexuality that offer insight into diverse sexual experiences.

Come As You Are — Emily Nagoski · the science of desire, especially responsive desire — a genuine myth-buster.
She Comes First — Ian Kerner · a frank, practical classic on female pleasure.
Better Sex Through Mindfulness — Lori Brotto · evidence-based work on attention, arousal and getting out of your head.

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