8 Common Yet Taboo Sexual Desires After 60 That Are Actually Healthy
Exploring sexual desires as you get older can be really liberating. There’s no need to stick to the old script.
1. Experimenting with New Positions
Trying out different positions can make sex more fun and comfy, regardless of your age.
2. Exploring Sexual Toys
Vibrators aren't just for younger people — they can enhance pleasure when arousal is slower due to medication or other reasons.
3. Discussing Fantasies with Your Partner
Having fantasies? It's totally normal. Sharing them with your partner can deepen your connection.
4. Experimenting with Sexual Roles
Switching roles in bed can be refreshing and help you explore new dynamics together.
5. Pursuing Casual Sex or Hookups
Sometimes, casual sex without strings attached can bring joy and adventure to your life.
6. Exploring Non-Monogamous Relationships
Opening up a relationship isn't just for younger couples. It could be exactly what keeps things exciting.
7. Engaging in Role Play or BDSM
Discovering the world of role play and BDSM can add excitement, trust, and better communication to your sex life.
8. Exploring Online Dating for Intimacy
Online platforms aren’t just for finding new partners; they’re great for casual encounters or deeper connections too.
If you're curious about exploring more in your sex life, consider reading up on the basics of sexual health and pleasure products.
- Come As You Are — Emily Nagoski · the science of desire, especially responsive desire — a genuine myth-buster.
- She Comes First — Ian Kerner · a frank, practical classic on female pleasure.
- Better Sex Through Mindfulness — Lori Brotto · evidence-based work on attention, arousal and getting out of your head.
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