7 Normal Sexual Fantasies You're Too Embarrassed to Share Post-Menopause
Exploring your desires shouldn't stop just because you've entered a new phase of life.
1. Trying New Positions
When you feel more at ease in your body, trying out different positions can make intimate moments super exciting and fresh.
2. Role Play
Putting on fancy clothes or playing pretend during sex can help you find the joy in imagination and playful fun again.
3. Multiple Partners
Thinking about having a partner or two, real or not, is common. It often comes from wanting some variety and attention in your life.
4. Stranger Encounters
Dreaming about meeting someone new can be really thrilling because it's all about that unpredictable spark of spontaneity.
5. Kinkier Activities
Adding a little spice with light bondage or blindfolds can bring an exciting twist to your intimate play without going too far.
6. Public Places
The idea of doing things in public spaces might feel risky and taboo, which is part of the thrill. Just make sure it's consensual and safe!
7. Revisiting Past Relationships
Thinking about old flames or revisiting past moments can be comforting and give you a chance to relive some great times.
If you're curious to explore more, consider checking out books on sex positivity and healthy relationships for insights and inspiration.
- Come As You Are — Emily Nagoski · the science of desire, especially responsive desire — a genuine myth-buster.
- She Comes First — Ian Kerner · a frank, practical classic on female pleasure.
- Better Sex Through Mindfulness — Lori Brotto · evidence-based work on attention, arousal and getting out of your head.
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