7 Normal Sexual Desires People Fear Discussing Post-60
Talking about your sexual desires at any age can feel liberating, even if you usually keep these thoughts to yourself.
1. Fantasies about younger partners
Got fantasies about younger folks? It's totally normal to imagine the energy they bring, whether you act on it or not.
2. Experimenting with toys or new techniques
Ever wanted to try a vibrator for the first time? That’s perfectly okay, no matter how old you are.
3. Desiring more frequent sex
Think less physical intimacy is just part of getting older? Not true. Wanting regular sex stays healthy and natural throughout your life.
4. Fantasies about ex-partners or celebrities
Daydreaming about past loves or celebs doesn’t mean you’re going to act on it. It’s just a way to explore what turns you on safely.
5. Longing for multiple partners
Ever thought about being with more than one person? It's totally valid, whether you're young or older. Non-monogamous relationships can be great if that’s what floats your boat.
6. Feeling turned on by romantic gestures
Need some romance in the air? Flowers, handwritten notes, or a spur-of-the-moment date night can really light up things between you and your partner.
7. Wanting to watch porn together
Sharing sexy stuff with your partner might seem odd, but it's actually super fun for exploring new ideas together. Age doesn’t matter here.
Consider exploring books on sexuality and relationships that cater to mature adults looking to deepen their understanding of intimacy at any stage in life.
- Come As You Are — Emily Nagoski · the science of desire, especially responsive desire — a genuine myth-buster.
- She Comes First — Ian Kerner · a frank, practical classic on female pleasure.
- Better Sex Through Mindfulness — Lori Brotto · evidence-based work on attention, arousal and getting out of your head.
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