7 Common Sexual Fantasies That Are Totally Normal
Fantasies are a normal part of sex life, here are some popular ones.
1. Role Play
Ever wanted to switch roles with your partner? From boss to employee or doctor to patient, it's all about those power games and making things interesting.
2. Masturbation in Front of Your Partner
Into solo time but want to share the fun? Some couples enjoy watching each other during masturbation to boost intimacy.
3. Cheating Scenes
Got a thing for cheating fantasies? It doesn't mean you'll cheat; it’s just about that rush of adventure and forbidden desire.
4. Group Sex
Wanting to explore multiple partners can be exciting. It's all about variety and new connections, so make sure everyone is on the same page with clear boundaries.
5. Kinky Bondage
Tying up or getting tied up? It's a bit of control play that adds excitement. Always talk about limits and what feels right before diving in.
6. Stranger Encounters
Into random encounters? Whether it’s at a party, hotel room, or somewhere else, the thrill is in the unknown and unexpected moments.
7. Exhibitionism
Dreaming about being watched while doing your thing? It can really amp up the pleasure. Just make sure everyone's cool with the idea of an audience.
If you're curious about exploring your fantasies further, consider reading a book on healthy communication in relationships.
- Come As You Are — Emily Nagoski · the science of desire, especially responsive desire — a genuine myth-buster.
- She Comes First — Ian Kerner · a frank, practical classic on female pleasure.
- Better Sex Through Mindfulness — Lori Brotto · evidence-based work on attention, arousal and getting out of your head.
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